However, I’m a slut who likes a good hook-up but had years-long monogamous relationships as well. I’m absolutely average looking and have mostly been with men who range from hot as fuck twinks to conventionally unattractive socially anxious weirdos. My last relationship was with an autistic 5’6" guy I met on a dating app, it started as a hook-up and lasted three years.
I look for chill people with passions, who know who they are and what they want. Or, are at least introspective enough to see themselves. Looks aren’t a big factor, but cleanliness and effort are. The single dad angle shot doesn’t do anyone any favors.
Just from looking at your comments, you’re coming in here with a defeatest mindset. People who haven’t had much luck can get trapped in that kind of negativity, it works its way into how they hold themselves and what they say in ways they don’t even realize. I unmatch with people as soon as they bring that into the conversation. Self-deprecating humor is alright, when carefully done, but risky on first impressions. If I’m looking for a fun hook-up, I want someone who looks and sounds fun.
I don’t even get matches so I can’t even have a fun conversation and I’ve swiped over 1000 times wasting my time looking at a screen swiping left and right tirelessly
Either there is or you’re a probabilistic anomaly because they clearly didn’t match with you. Have you tried changing it? Have you looked at other men’s profiles? Showed it to girls and asked if it’s good? Gone on other apps?
Or, if it’s a waste of time, try something else? Men outnumber women on dating apps, plus it’s a marketing game. In marketing, when a strategy doesn’t get hits, you change it. Seek out other audiences, different platforms, new spaces, hire a consultant(a therapist.)
I’m a chick. Ignore this if you want.
However, I’m a slut who likes a good hook-up but had years-long monogamous relationships as well. I’m absolutely average looking and have mostly been with men who range from hot as fuck twinks to conventionally unattractive socially anxious weirdos. My last relationship was with an autistic 5’6" guy I met on a dating app, it started as a hook-up and lasted three years.
I look for chill people with passions, who know who they are and what they want. Or, are at least introspective enough to see themselves. Looks aren’t a big factor, but cleanliness and effort are. The single dad angle shot doesn’t do anyone any favors.
Just from looking at your comments, you’re coming in here with a defeatest mindset. People who haven’t had much luck can get trapped in that kind of negativity, it works its way into how they hold themselves and what they say in ways they don’t even realize. I unmatch with people as soon as they bring that into the conversation. Self-deprecating humor is alright, when carefully done, but risky on first impressions. If I’m looking for a fun hook-up, I want someone who looks and sounds fun.
I don’t even get matches so I can’t even have a fun conversation and I’ve swiped over 1000 times wasting my time looking at a screen swiping left and right tirelessly
No ones owes you a match. Not the app or the women on it. If you don’t make a profile people want to match with, that’s on you.
There ain’t anything extremely wrong with my profile for not one single woman of the 1000s to match with me
Either there is or you’re a probabilistic anomaly because they clearly didn’t match with you. Have you tried changing it? Have you looked at other men’s profiles? Showed it to girls and asked if it’s good? Gone on other apps?
Or, if it’s a waste of time, try something else? Men outnumber women on dating apps, plus it’s a marketing game. In marketing, when a strategy doesn’t get hits, you change it. Seek out other audiences, different platforms, new spaces, hire a consultant(a therapist.)