Honestly? Because there’s fifteen guys in my DMs offering to take me to pound town or sending me wildly unsolicited pics of their dicks or trying to get feet pics or telling me how smart and intellectual I seem - seriously, listen, if I just wanted to get railed (and I had no standards) it would take me less than two minutes to set that up. And every woman’s inbox is like that, I promise you. If you don’t put in at least a little bit of effort to stand out from the sea of unsolicited dickpics, marriage proposals, negging and general ‘horny’ we get every day, we’re just gonna gloss over your message. It’s not personal just, there’s so many messages every day that I don’t even have time to read them all. If I do read the message, and it’s just the same thing as always, why spend time responding to that message instead of one of the (depressingly few) that seem like they might be fun and interesting and indicates the sender has the barest minimum of social aptitude?
And all this is coming from the perspective of an unabashed slut. You wanna land a lady with a bit of class? You actually have to, like, try a little bit. Otherwise there’s just so much noise from the unwashed masses of horny, they’ll probably never even notice you. It’s horrible, I don’t know a single woman that likes this, but it’s just the reality we’re stuck with.
if I just wanted to get railed (and I had no standards) it would take me less than two minutes to set that up.
I actually wonder what the conversion rate would be for people who send DMs like that. I imagine a big chunk of them are like dogs chasing cars, and wouldn’t know what to do it the car just stopped in the road.
I’m thinking a significant percentage wouldn’t follow through if the conversation turned to an invite to meet in person.
Honestly? Because there’s fifteen guys in my DMs offering to take me to pound town or sending me wildly unsolicited pics of their dicks or trying to get feet pics or telling me how smart and intellectual I seem - seriously, listen, if I just wanted to get railed (and I had no standards) it would take me less than two minutes to set that up. And every woman’s inbox is like that, I promise you. If you don’t put in at least a little bit of effort to stand out from the sea of unsolicited dickpics, marriage proposals, negging and general ‘horny’ we get every day, we’re just gonna gloss over your message. It’s not personal just, there’s so many messages every day that I don’t even have time to read them all. If I do read the message, and it’s just the same thing as always, why spend time responding to that message instead of one of the (depressingly few) that seem like they might be fun and interesting and indicates the sender has the barest minimum of social aptitude?
And all this is coming from the perspective of an unabashed slut. You wanna land a lady with a bit of class? You actually have to, like, try a little bit. Otherwise there’s just so much noise from the unwashed masses of horny, they’ll probably never even notice you. It’s horrible, I don’t know a single woman that likes this, but it’s just the reality we’re stuck with.
I actually wonder what the conversion rate would be for people who send DMs like that. I imagine a big chunk of them are like dogs chasing cars, and wouldn’t know what to do it the car just stopped in the road.
I’m thinking a significant percentage wouldn’t follow through if the conversation turned to an invite to meet in person.
I think they all eventually make a post like this one.