Idk how okcupid is now but I always found it funny that it was labeled as a partner type site but most of my interactions on there just ended up being super casual sex very often
“Try before you buy” is the joke description, but honestly the #1 reason I see people breaking up is because they were sexually incompatible (or really, just sexually lackluster) so it makes a ton of sense to approach relationships from that direction as a primary component. IDK, I think most people are just horny, but it’s a convenient side-effect of the horny?
Yeah it’s very true and I encourage it (in a safe way) cos once my partner and I got together and finally did it, I finally fully understood having sexual compatibility with someone and we’ve been together for ten years now. Fucking around as a younger lad was pretty fun though too and I’m glad I experienced it so I had the confidence to know what I like
Idk how okcupid is now but I always found it funny that it was labeled as a partner type site but most of my interactions on there just ended up being super casual sex very often
I met the BEST fwb’s on okcupid.
The app changed a lot and it sucks now.
“Try before you buy” is the joke description, but honestly the #1 reason I see people breaking up is because they were sexually incompatible (or really, just sexually lackluster) so it makes a ton of sense to approach relationships from that direction as a primary component. IDK, I think most people are just horny, but it’s a convenient side-effect of the horny?
Yeah it’s very true and I encourage it (in a safe way) cos once my partner and I got together and finally did it, I finally fully understood having sexual compatibility with someone and we’ve been together for ten years now. Fucking around as a younger lad was pretty fun though too and I’m glad I experienced it so I had the confidence to know what I like