If “Be good at talking” isn’t working for you, and you’re convinced you’re not going to be able to work the appearance angle, what exactly is left for you to try? It’s a dating app, the interactions are limited to “photos of self” and “talking to people”.
Look, let me ask in complete sincerity: what are you looking for by asking this question? You think “everyone” in this generation is all about hooking up - are you trying to figure out the secret to how they do it? The answer to that is pretty simple: be attractive in some way (which is very much not limited to just physical traits). There’s no cheat code here to get in a girls pants, it’s literally just learning to work with what’s available to you. That’s it.
Have you considered that maybe it’s you? Like, you’re going to have to work on yourself to get to the point that you can pull on a dating app, there’s no “secret” you’re missing that you can add and magically you’re gonna land the babes. You’re just… not attractive. You can improve that, but it takes work.
So, I guess there is a secret: Putting in the work to make yourself attractive.
Women enjoy conversation.
Yeah that hasn’t done anything for me
If “Be good at talking” isn’t working for you, and you’re convinced you’re not going to be able to work the appearance angle, what exactly is left for you to try? It’s a dating app, the interactions are limited to “photos of self” and “talking to people”.
Look, let me ask in complete sincerity: what are you looking for by asking this question? You think “everyone” in this generation is all about hooking up - are you trying to figure out the secret to how they do it? The answer to that is pretty simple: be attractive in some way (which is very much not limited to just physical traits). There’s no cheat code here to get in a girls pants, it’s literally just learning to work with what’s available to you. That’s it.
Apparently there is cuz all these other dudes are doing it that are average looking
Have you considered that maybe it’s you? Like, you’re going to have to work on yourself to get to the point that you can pull on a dating app, there’s no “secret” you’re missing that you can add and magically you’re gonna land the babes. You’re just… not attractive. You can improve that, but it takes work.
So, I guess there is a secret: Putting in the work to make yourself attractive.