They shouldn’t be able to do that!

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    Well yes, that’s what I tell my kids, but they could write anything and I couldn’t check it…

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      Ahh, I see the problem.

      Blocking here is just ignoring people you don’t agree with, what you’re looking for is a way to punish them for not agreeing.

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        Got me in the first half, but no, I want them to leave me alone. That’s what ignore should be all about.

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          But they are leaving you alone. You can’t see their comment if you blocked them. They could be screaming like a monkey with rabies and you’ll never notice.

          If the idea that they can still comment bothers you, then you indeed want to punish them, rather than just ignore them.

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            Yes, they blocked me, and I’m calling them a nanner-head for all of you to see. But they don’t know they’ve been called a nanner-head behind their back, so they’ve been left alone. Now they only know they’re being called a nanner-head on the internet if someone shows them a screenshot. Being called a nanner-head behind their back on the public internet is not likely to affect them in real life, so what’s the harm?

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            But they are leaving you alone

            But they’re really not though, if they’re commenting on your post, whether or not you can see it

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              When you have blocked someone, and they comment on your post, do they come to your front door and start yelling?

              Are they standing across the road with a large, vulgar sign?

              Do you get a phone call?

              Do you in any way get notified?

              Can you even see their comment?

              If you answer “no” to the above, then you are left alone. They are no longer your concern. If you’re still concerned, then that’s a problem in your head.

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              Technically, that’s still leaving YOU alone. They’re just talking behind your back. And people I’ve blocked probably have, but I don’t know and I don’t care. I don’t need to silence others to stop listening to them.

            • ℕ𝕖𝕞𝕠@slrpnk.net
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              That’s always true. In real life, and online. You can’t control what people think or say.

              If you want to witness it, don’t block them. It’s your peace of mind, you decide how to spend it.

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              Oh no! The potential that someone is mocking me, behind my back, without me witnessing or knowing it, really keeps me awake at night!

              I mean, really. If you’ve gone so far as to block someone, do you even care that they’re mocking you?

              If so, why? And are you aware that someone can mock you, or spread crap about you behind your back, without explicitly needing the ability to comment on your threads?

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        No, there’s enough nonsense going on, too many idiots and even more bots, it’s not punishment, there’s no way to have a conversation with people who don’t engage in any way that is productive, it’s a waste of my time

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          There’s no block system on the whole of the internet that prevents that. Even if they couldn’t reply to your comments, they could reply to anyone else’s, or post a top-level comment, or make their own post entirely. What do you propose? Don’t let them even type your name?

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            I think what OP is wanting is “block this person from seeing/commenting on my posts” in addition to “block me from seeing this person’s posts.”

            This is certainly possible (and exists) on many platforms, but is much more difficult on a federated platform. It becomes actually impossible if your posts are accessible to the unauthenticated public.

            N.B. I’ll withhold judgment on whether full-stack blocking is beneficial, but there have been cases where this style of blocking is used to amplify echo chambers (e.g. Reddit). There is no perfect system besides simply staying the fuck off social media.