• jerakor@startrek.website
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    8 hours ago

    I can’t imagine thinking any medical procedure has a simple answer, especially anything that permanently alters you.

    Medical professionals are people, sometimes they make the right choice, sometimes the wrong choice. There are people who shop for the wrong answer, and also people who get the wrong answer and live in suffering. It is important to question things and have a discourse.

    If my 16 year old came to me and asked to have their hearing removed as a solution to their mispohonia and that their therapist agrees and they found a surgeon… I don’t think I could just jump on board with that call.

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      7 hours ago

      The simple answer is that it is nobody’s business but the patient and the medical professionals.

      A surgeon would not remove someone’s hearing for misophonia. They took an oath to do no harm and the vast, vast majority of medical professionals take that seriously on a personal level before getting into licensing and other requirements to practice.

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        5 hours ago

        The reasonable debate is at what age is that allowed. I do not think that has an easy answer other than legal age of majority for the country you are a citizen of. I think that the problem is there are harder answers than that worth seriously considering.

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          5 hours ago

          This is like saying there needs to be a minimum age for ADHD medications or birth control. Doctors are not giving minors sex changes all willy nilly and the procedures that they do provide like hormone suppression are proven safe, effective, and reversible.

          Why does the general public or politicians need to pick an age for medical care that doesn’t involve them and doesn’t harm anyone?

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            5 hours ago

            Because I don’t think a 2 year old should be given Adderall without a parent knowing?

            I personally am pretty open minded about these things, I was able to get birth control with my partner when I was 15 without her Catholic parents knowing. That was very important, but I recognize that if we were 10 it maybe becomes a different conversation involving parents.

            You might say a parent could be included but you also have cases of divorced parents where one parent is for and another is against and there is a question of if the childs opinions are theirs or their parents. What age should the child be able to make the call? 15? 10? 5?

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              4 hours ago

              Because I don’t think a 2 year old should be given Adderall without a parent knowing?

              What a totally reasonable and not completely fictional scenario that shows you are discussing in good faith.