I personally cringe when I hear a friend js having a kid. All I can think of is how bad theyre going to have it. Hell id definitely have been better off being born 20 years earlier, but these new kids are REALLY screwed unless they have super rich parents.
“Nothing new under the sun” I suppose!
Slow and steady boil vs a quick(er) release.
Not the best way to die of course, but I’d choose the quick path if given the choice.
But the path to the end is littered with grief on both ways just spread more and in a different way.