Dumb questions but when i scroll thru lemmy how come i dont find much nsfw stuff. I like not seeing it but when i do see something the community is very small and cursed to say.
Im just used to seeing people spam nsfw type jokes coming from Reddit. Its good that i haven’t used Reddit in some time.
as far as literal porn goes, people only want to post it where it can get an exponential following and direct traffic to places like only fans. very very few reddit posters are posting themselves without eventually posting a linktree so to them there’s no point if they can’t make numbers. which they can’t here, we just don’t have the userbase
on lemmy though I’ve seen the Oglaf comic has its own channel, which is kind of fun to spot in the wild. otherwise you kind of have to go looking for communities that will specifically be about “sexual humor”, and like you said those are either cursed or dead
If you’re only looking for videos of two or more real people fucking, that may be true. But for other kinds of porn (hentai, erotica, audio porn, solo), there seem to be plenty of posters who do it just for the love of the game, so to speak.