• anarchiddy@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    1 day ago

    Don’t be dense. Define ‘bothsides type’ that includes all subsets of the group you’re talking about. I’d bet pretty penny it isn’t limited to people who use the phrase ‘both sides are exactly the same’.

    I’m gonna guess this is pretty close: ‘someone who criticizes the democrats without clearly signaling their electoral support of them’

    Or, put another way:

    [in the way they criticize my party]

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      Don’t be dense. Define ‘bothsides type’ that includes all subsets of the group you’re talking about. I’d bet pretty penny it isn’t limited to people who use the phrase ‘both sides are exactly the same’.

      Those who present of all major sides of an issue to be indistinguishable because they are both flawed, with the implicit or explicit exhortation to support neither, when there are obvious and important differences between the two with one being unambiguously preferable.

      I’m gonna guess this is pretty close: ‘someone who criticizes the democrats without clearly signaling their electoral support of them’

      I mean, harm reduction is not morally optional, but criticizing the Dems without signaling electoral support is not inherently a “BOTHSIDES” reaction, excepting, say, in the immediate lead-up to an election of unusual importance wherein the only realistic options are fascism or the Dems.

      When there is an immediate crisis coming up, wherein messaging is extremely important, and you choose to amplify messages that help fascists without bothering to amplify messages that damage fascists, it’s difficult to see that as anything except service to fascism.

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        10 hours ago

        As a foreigner, I think dems are genociding scums and now when I bump into americans here I am as aggressive as they deserve

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        13 hours ago

        the “obvious and important differences” are obvious and important to you because you drink the left’s koolaid while the right drinks your milkshake.

        the reality is that the Democratic party exhausts it’s voters’ emotional reserves, and consequently is ineffectual at winning hearts and minds, Then they blame the public for apathy.

        That is a strategy that is basically guaranteed to put fascism in power. Who knew?

        The centrists knew. And when we tried to engage you in conversation about it, you ridiculed and attempted to maneuver with rhetoric, instead of truly engaging.

        the funny thing about this is - or sad, maybe, I’m not sure which - is that centrists often have the emotional wherewithal to handle extreme situations. We’ve been dealing with extremes all of our lives. We see how they feed into each other because we actually grapple with the things others would rather blame other people for. We see that what the left is doing is ineffectual. We see that what the right is doing is vile. We act on it - actually take action, not protest - in the ways we can, in our own lives.

        So… …if the right wins, and it really goes poorly, it’ll be a fucking shit time for all of us. But it’ll be beyond that - it’ll be hell for you who have ridiculed others instead of growing, because not only will you have to face the physical reality, you’ll have to face the psychological and emotional realities you always refused to, in the middle of everything else going to shit.

        Grow, or suffer. Grow, or repeat. That is the law you are bound by, and yet you don’t make a rational choice.

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          you drink the left’s koolaid while the right drinks your milkshake.

          Who knew?
          The centrists knew.

          … What the fuck? Is this that ‘anti-woke’ bullshit I keep seeing spewed on late-night talkshows? There’s nobody left in the fucking center. I only partially agree with you - democrats think it sufficient to pound the drums of ranbow-capitalism, when it’s the capitalism part that voters are actually livid about. Apathy doesn’t happen when their ‘emotional reserves’ are run dry or whateverthefuck, it happens when they give up on the democratic party for making actual substantive changes. You think anyone gives a fuck about infrastructure spending when billionaires are running rampant, buying public platforms to manipulate public attention and building toy rockets so they can make-pretend that their astronauts? Fuck no. The fact that they instead spend their media time scaremongering about social issues is secondary to the fact that they’re doing that while the country becomes a playground for the egos of oligarchs. Yes, trans rights are under attack and we should protect them, but that’s not a substitute for addressing the systemic changes that are making everyone miserable.

          We see that what the left is doing is ineffectual. We see that what the right is doing is vile. We act on it - actually take action, not protest - in the ways we can, in our own lives.

          Lmao is this a parody? Take action in your own life… How? by mowing your fucking lawn? Imagine if the civil rights movement didn’t bother protesting and instead dedicated their time toward… what, emigrating out of their homes in the south? Boycotting the segregated cafes they weren’t allowed into? “Protesting is lame” says the centrist that definitely isn’t over-privileged prick

          But it’ll be beyond that - it’ll be hell for you who have ridiculed others instead of growing

          Grow into what?? What even is the centrist vision for the democrats? More child tax credits and free vaccination programs? That’s your big vision to defeat fascism? GTFO lmao

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        23 hours ago

        When there is an immediate crisis coming up, wherein messaging is extremely important, and you choose to amplify messages that help fascists without bothering to amplify messages that damage fascists, it’s difficult to see that as anything except service to fascism.

        “If you’re not with us, you’re against us”

        Democrats wanted everyone to shut up about how much was wrong that needed fixing so that they could win, and leftists wanted democrats to acknowledge how much was wrong that needed fixing so that they could win.

        Throwing the leftists in with the right-wingers assumes that the rest of the country wasn’t already feeling the pain the democrats were trying to suppress.

        Those who present of all major sides of an issue to be indistinguishable because they are both flawed, with the implicit or explicit exhortation to support neither, when there are obvious and important differences between the two with one being unambiguously preferable.

        Lmao, here’s what this reads like:

        A person who complicates a binary political choice at politically inexpedient moment by pointing out a flaw present in both binaries

        No wonder American politics has regressed into pure symbols and signs.

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          23 hours ago

          “If you’re not with us, you’re against us”

          That is literally what a FPTP election results in, yes. I see this is still taking time to sink in.

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            23 hours ago

            If it had anything to do with electoralism you wouldn’t be whinging about this 3 and a half years before the next election

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              23 hours ago

              If it had anything to do with electoralism you wouldn’t be whinging about this 3 and a half years before the next election

              First, there’s no guarantee that the next election will matter at all.

              Second, the issue is much deeper - namely, the exact kind of ‘bothsides’ bullshit that leads people to abstain from siding with the less-vile choice of two in an election will certainly lead people to abstain from siding with the less-vile choice in issues of action that require something greater than an hour of a single day of their life.

              Third, why the fuck would you wait until the last minute to address an issue? If there is an outstanding issue that leftists seem to believe that losing and letting marginalized groups be murdered is preferable to picking the lesser evil, why should that not be addressed immediately instead of ten seconds before the next electoral circus?

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                22 hours ago

                the exact kind of ‘bothsides’ bullshit that leads people to abstain from siding with the less-vile choice of two in an election will certainly lead people to abstain from siding with the less-vile choice in issues of action that require something greater than an hour of a single day of their life.

                LMFAO, get the fuck out of here with that white moderate bullshit. Are you serious?? Lol I can’t get over this. It’s like if you took MLK’s ‘the Negro’s great stumbling block’ quote and just removed the part about white moderates. Even he knew that the movement’s greatest hurtle wasn’t the actual-fucking KKK, but the democrats who continuously told them that ‘now is not the time’. Lmao. Yes, both sides are bad, that’s why we’re fucking pointing it out so we can fix it. What an absolute dipshit revisionist you are.

                why the fuck would you wait until the last minute to address an issue?

                Oh, did you just not understand what I was talking about? I’m pointing to your complaints about ‘bothsiders’ pointing to glaring issues within the democratic party. Yea, of-fucking-course now is the time to address these issues. That’s why it’s fucking crazy that you picked now to meme about ‘bothsiders’ drumming up inter-party tension well away from any of our next elections. This is when the tension needs to happen.

                Fucking make up your mind lmao, is it good or bad to drum up tension about the bad shit in the democratic party, and is it good or bad right now? Do we have your permission? Is now a good time?

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                  21 hours ago

                  LMFAO, get the fuck out of here with that white moderate bullshit. Are you serious?? Lol I can’t get over this. It’s like if you took MLK’s ‘the Negro’s great stumbling block’ quote and just removed the part about white moderates.

                  … because I point out that people who purity test themselves out of cooperating with potential allies over when minimal effort is required on their part will do the same thing when major effort is required on their part?

                  Fucking what?

                  Even he knew that the movement’s greatest hurtle wasn’t the actual-fucking KKK, but the democrats who continuously told them that ‘now is not the time’. Lmao.

                  Which is why he made sure to oppose LBJ, right?

                  Yes, both sides are bad, that’s why we’re fucking pointing it out so we can fix it.

                  But with zero interest in doing anything productive to fix it, of course.

                  What an absolute dipshit revisionist you are.

                  Ironic, considering that MLK, a socialist, worked with LBJ, despite the Dems being much more gruesome and despicable then.

                  Guess he was just too much of a shitlib to understand politics on the enlightened level you do.

                  Oh, did you just not understand what I was talking about? I’m pointing to your complaints about ‘bothsiders’ pointing to glaring issues within the democratic party.

                  Already pointed out that criticism of the Dems isn’t what’s being criticized here, but whatever you need to confirm the paranoia that I’m a Fed or a warhawk or whatever it is that you’ve got going on.

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                    21 hours ago

                    … because I point out that people who purity test themselves out of cooperating with potential allies over when minimal effort is required on their part will do the same thing when major effort is required on their part?

                    No, because binary categories themselves are what stop insufficiently-motivated liberals like yourself from doing the right thing at all. You’re the one trying to shove activists into a box and calling them right-wingers. The only one advocating for a purity test is you LMFAO. The lack of self-awareness is fucking incredible.

                    Which is why he made sure to oppose LBJ, right?

                    Only because he was already amicable to his cause. You think the democrats deserve the same charitability when they’ve roundly rejected ours? Besides, if they deserved any leeway previously when they were in power, they sure as fuck don’t deserve it now

                    Ironic, considering that MLK, a socialist, worked with LBJ, despite the Dems being much more gruesome and despicable then.

                    He worked with people who were willing to work with him - democrats are far less willing to negotiate than LBJ ever was. Maybe the next lot will be more sensible.

                    Already pointed out that criticism of the Dems isn’t what’s being criticized here, but whatever you need to confirm the paranoia that I’m a Fed or a warhawk or whatever it is that you’ve got going on.

                    I don’t think you are a fed, just that you’re the most thumb-sounding self-described ‘leftist’ I’ve ever seen on lemmy. And no, not ‘criticism of dems’, just criticism directed at the dems that also apply to republicans, because that’s apparently not very fair to your feelings.