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Cake day: July 9th, 2023

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  • Honestly? As much as I hate the parent company, any recent studies you can find on Google Scholar. That’s a great place to start. And don’t just go with what the title of the paper says. Even if the title looks like it’s pro- or anti-sex-addiction, the abstract usually gives a more nuanced perspective.

    And as you look at the papers, just remember that religion would love to be right about how they personally interpret what their god says is “the right way to do it.” If a paper ever makes claims that it’s definitively proven that sex addiction is real, check the source; it’s probably religious.

    Porn, sex, and masturbation may accompany an addiction, but excessive activity is almost always a symptom of or in addition to other, deeper issues. In the papers you’ll find from Scholar, you’ll see a recurring theme: “it’s complicated.” To put it another way, someone who chronically masturbates is likely coping with a deeper trauma(s). When the trauma is dealt with, they may no longer compelled to masturbate, because masturbating does not itself appear to be addictive. Same with porn and sex.

    The issue arises that when people engage in these activities more than their peers, they may assume they’re behaving abnormally. Add on religion that has dogmatic rules about what is allowed, and that feeling of abnormality may be internalized as addiction, whereas a professional may find nothing unusual.

    I came from a religion that promoted purity culture, and the idea that sex is addictive is simply a grotesque misrepresentation of the facts. If the science changes based on the facts and indicates that sex is addictive, I’ll change my tune accordingly.

    Until then, the “sex addict” proponents do not have a rigorous, data-backed leg to stand upon.


  • I brought this up on a different post where somebody made an offhand joke about masturbation addiction. Like clockwork, somebody showed up and was like, “Nuh-uh! You can get addicted to anything!”

    It’s going to be a while until we leave that idea behind, because now, it’s not just the religious parroting the pseudoscience. The hyper-masculinity grift has gotten in on it, too, with concepts like semen retention, sometimes even plagiarizing purity culture outright.






  • Germany has multiple temporary exceptions to the Schengen regulations. One has been on the books since 2015. Two more were entered more recently.

    Countries who participate in Schengen are allowed to have temporary exceptions for internal borders for exceptional circumstances, as determined by the country itself. This is within the guidelines of Schengen, so OP’s story is not abnormal.

    It’s good to know for the sake of privacy, I suppose, if you didn’t know there were exceptions and you were trying to avoid being identified by specific governments. But unless you’re a person of interest to German authorities, they likely won’t care who you are.



  • The purpose of tariffs (in a normal world) is to make it harder for domestic entities to buy international goods. Typically, this will spur growth of a particular sector of industry within a country over time.

    The way Trump is using them as a battering ram in an attempt to punish other countries, rather than incentivize steady growth, is why the US market is tanking and likely headed to another recession (or worse).

    By retaliating in kind, the EU will be incentivizing their citizens and companies not to buy from the US. This will hurt companies that are based in the US, like Google, Microsoft, Meta, etc., further sending the US economy into freefall and bolstering the European economy, since they aren’t trying to punish every single trade partner in existence.

    There may be other ways they try to move money around to avoid the tariffs, but governments are aware of how big businesses operate and often try to close those kinds of loopholes. Since this has become a global political issue, I would imagine they’ll be keeping a more watchful eye than normal on things.



  • If you would read that source you cited, it would explain what’s happening.

    In September 2024, Germany announced it would temporarily introduce checks at all of its land borders, in order to tackle irregular migration. The controls were scheduled to be in force for six months.[172]

    There’s a table under the section “Regulation of Internal Borders.” It shows existing controls as of Jan 2025. Germany has some due to:

    Terrorism, European migrant crisis, increase in irregular migration from Turkey through the Western Balkans, strain on the asylum reception system, human smuggling

    This is not something abnormal, it’s something you didn’t know about.


  • You may be right simply by Point 3 alone. It’s one i hadn’t considered.

    Still, if that’s true, we’d be fighting a similar kind of adversary, but one that isn’t dismantling vital institutions like the Dept. of Education, USAID, etc. I wish we’d had that future to work with, because I worry about the children that will grow up having to deal with the consequences of their parents electing Trump; their paradigm will be shaped by the coming crises.

    The fight could have gone on in both scenarios, but now, a lot more people (domestically and abroad) will get hurt in the short and long term, even as the fight does continue.

    Anyway, thanks for the respectful reply. You’ve made some good points, and given that a lot of my side of the discussion is speculative, I don’t know that there’s much point in going much further. We have to deal with the current situation, awful as it is.

    Stay safe. Stay strong. Hopefully we never have to meet on some frontline.




  • Just for fun, I tried three more pens and writing in an inverted position (i.e. towards the ceiling):

    • A Bic Crystal
    • A Papermate Gel
    • Some random pen from an auto shop with a nonstandard ballpoint tip (so probably some brand other than the first two).

    All of them failed. Interestingly, the Crystal lasted the longest, but when it failed, it was almost immediate.

    I’m not saying this is an especially scientific test, but I’ve now tried four different ballpoint pens, all from different manufacturers, and none could write upside down. Gravity is an important part of how they work on Earth.

    It may be that you can still write in space, but I would hazard a guess that it has to do with whether you can keep ink on the ball. Since there’s no “down,” how you write or how you hold the pen when you take breaks might make things better or worse.

    It’s cool, though, that he put it to the test. When I just put my pens to the side, they get refreshed and are able to write again, which is why my hypothesis is that it’s down to whether you can keep the ball continuously wet or not.