• ORbituary@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    22 hours ago

    Everybody deserves a chance to course correct after repenting for mistakes. Denying redemption is downright psychotic. You don’t have to forgive or even forget, but if you don’t acknowledge the work someone does in reparation, you yourself are broken.

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      20 hours ago

      must suck for you, since the people youve hurt obviously won’t forgive you

      Don’t come here, make excuses for abuse, and call people names if someone isn’t willing to see it your way or whatever your point is

      people in this thread calling others fucking psychotic really stink of misogyny

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        15 hours ago

        must suck for you, since the people youve hurt obviously won’t forgive you

        Don’t take this as an insult (because it’s not meant as one), but accusing someone you don’t know like that kinda discredits anything you’re trying to say, whether you’re right or not.

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        16 hours ago

        There is no gender association in my comment nor did I presuppose your gender identity. In fact, I believe that what I said should be considered universal, not specific to this scenario.

        Good luck finding peace. You seem to have a lot anger.