The starvation of intimacy thing is the only reason I would consider a poly relationship because I’ve only ever been with one woman who had a sex drive close to mine. I could have easily gave it to 2-3 of any of the other women I’ve been with as often as they wanted without anyone missing out. I also am fair minded/hypocritical about it though and if I was was allowed to sleep with other people so can they and I’m not interested in a relationship with a woman who sleeps with other dudes so it wouldn’t work. Also doubt I could meet the emotional needs of more than one at a time as I’m terrible at that. I guess that’s what polygamy is for though, the man gets all the benefits and the woman is locked into it more. So that’s shitty.
Where is all this daycare money going? My daycare was like 8 ladies that just sat around in a playroom doing arts and crafts with us all day and took us to the pool and library in summer. They could have covered that on 2/3 kids each at 40k a year/kid. They didn’t seem to be particularly well off…