The way I see it, these superficial factors need to materially impact how you treat or view a person before you go from observation to objectification
You think that rating somebody by hot or not does not change your view, nor anybody else’s? Teenage girls are not subject the influence of popularity, it’s only teenage boys? Teenage girls aren’t going to gossip about the dads, share pictures, jerk off to them, dream about being in a relationship with them, worship them, non of that? Only teenage boys would do that, right?
Many things in society aren’t symmetric between men and women.
That makes it right, doesn’t it?
Why is the text left to right, but the images have to be observed right to left to understand?