Doing the Lord’s work in the Devil’s basement

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  • It was when dialup started taking off in France, so probably 95 or 96. I had a computer at home, but only my uncle had a modem. When we would go to his place for a family dinner I’d take a few floppies and fill them with midi files from some website.

    We had a sort of sneakernet going with a couple friends at school, just a disk we’d pass around to share whatever cool file we found. Let’s just say having Metallica and Nirvana songs (even if it was just a midi version) put me on top of that game for some time…






  • who said this is a competition? this makes no sense

    OP made it a competition. They haven’t even arrived, they don’t even know the kids in question, but they’re already calculating whether they will siphon off attention away from them. That screams immaturity to me.

    your initial comment indicates clearly that OP does not deserve attention and respect in your opinion

    My comment says nothing of the sort, and i am sorry if it can be interpreted that way.

    Let me rephrase it : OP sounds super high-maintenance. If i am meeting with another adult, it’s not to baby-sit them. It’s not to always be wondering whether i am giving them enough affirmation, or whether they are getting agitated because they feel i’m not focused 100% on them. That’s what kids are for.

    That is not to say you should meet with someone and completely ignore them. But when adults meet, there’s this tacit understanding that everybody’s got their own shit going on, and there may be the odd interruption or the occasional shift of focus. Your work phone may ring. A kid may get hurt and need a hug. Hell, maybe someone from your Minecraft group hits you up on Discord for some urgent topic. I don’t give a shit, i’m not the center of the universe, and i can look at my phone for 10 minutes while you get your stuff out of the way. Apparently OP is wildly unprepared for this kind of completely normal and benign situation.