I totally get that, but I know my neighbor has had a few falls this year and after a recent surgery isn’t supposed to do much physical activity while she’s recovering. She’s mentioned to me in the past that she struggles with this sort of thing, and she had a falling out with the friend that used to do it for her

Thanks, I think I may do this. I had been thinking about just saying something like “hey, I’m making meatballs and ran out of eggs, can I borrow one?” here or there just so she feels more comfortable in the future, like we’re helping each other but this is a great idea too. Appreciate you!

I frequently stop and chat with her, so we’re definitely on friendly terms. I’d consider us to be friends, we exchange holiday cards and stuff. I just don’t want her to feel like she’s taking advantage, but I’m always happy to help