Our News Team @ 11 with host Snot Flickerman

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Cake day: October 24th, 2023

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  • When I was with my ex, after he fucked me over. He chased me irl in his car and was screaming out his car to me while I was riding my Bike. I was petrified and was crying the whole time running away. But now I get it. People who love go great measures to get u back. Thats how I feel now.

    Look, that’s an incredibly unhealthy thing to take from that interaction. People with real love in their hearts are willing to let go of who they love if it means better things for that person. They love them enough to want the best for them, even if means losing them. They don’t follow screaming and crying demanding that the other give up a better future for them.

    I’ve done all I can, and I think most others have, too. If you don’t actually want to listen to the advice given by many people who have taken time out of their days to try to encourage you into healthy relationship habits, that’s your choice. Because in this thread and the last, all I’ve seen is healthy advice given and healthy advice ignored. Maybe that’s just because you’re young and haven’t learned enough to understand that it is indeed healthy advice, but it is. Beating yourself up for your past and treating yourself like you don’t have worth due to it is a choice, and it’s an unhealthy one. I really do hope things get better for you. Doing this to yourself won’t make it better, it will just make your depression and mental health worse. Freeing yourself from the chains of treating yourself like you are a bad person is the healthy choice and will improve your mental health. It’s okay if you’re not prepared to go down that path, but it’s also okay if people want to stop giving you advice because you can’t or won’t listen.


  • Nobody is dimissing it. Didn’t dismiss it last time either.

    Even sex workers deserve a healthy love life because sex work is work.

    I’m trying so hard to get something I can’t it’s killing me

    Don’t waste time on people who don’t want to be with you. You can’t force someone to love you or feel ways about you. You deserve to be accepted as you are, without judgment for what you have done. A good partner would not make you feel less for taking money from old men but would hold you while you cried about it and tell you they loved you anyway. They would tell you that it was okay to have negative feelings about what you did but that it didn’t change how they felt about you. Support not judgment. He chooses to make you feel worse through judgment instead of acceptance.