It is becoming difficult to keep assuming you’re not being intentionally obtuse.
Imagine a big burly person with a big beard who is read by most people as “man” entering a bathroom labelled “women” - because that’s the “relevant” one for their genitals. Do you really think there wouldn’t be SOME sort of reaction?
You probably mean well but you absolutely cannot tell me you never ever use pronouns. Language doesn’t work like that.
And we haven’t even started talking about the Bathroom Issue.
The fact that you’re not aware how frequently gendered language is used may not be your fault but it is a result of your privilege.
Girl, I don’t know what to tell you here.
Congratulations on your privilege.
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Alright, have a nice day.