Totally agree. People here are some of the worst I have ever seen. Like actually worse than Reddit. Easily. Pretty sure most people here are just miserable depressed fucks. Kinda makes sense honestly.

Totally agree. People here are some of the worst I have ever seen. Like actually worse than Reddit. Easily. Pretty sure most people here are just miserable depressed fucks. Kinda makes sense honestly.

Well that’s a shame. Kind of just turns the community into bullshit.

Urine being sterile is an urban myth. You might want to look this up before spreading misinformation.

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC4659483/

"Take home message.

Adult human urine is not sterile. The resident bacterial community may contribute to urinary health and disease in undiscovered ways. Bacterial genomic sequencing and expanded urine cultures techniques are major complementary tools for scientific exploration in urologic research."

This shitshow of a comment thread shows that Lemmy might and probably actually is more toxic than Reddit. Why are people here even meaner and more argumentative than other sites/forums? What is wrong with you?

No, however I don’t see how this would ruin the relationship with the child? OP can be honest and tell his kid why he’s taking that stance. It’s as simple as “you’re a young adult and you’ll do what you want to do, but I don’t want to get in trouble for it. I’m not against sex. I just don’t wanna be yelled at by other parents. So I’m gonna say to sleep in different rooms as a compromise.” Jesus people, this shit ain’t rocket science. Stop overcomplicating it.

It’s not ridiculous at all because it lets OP show the other parents that he’s not directly endorsing it, even if OP personally doesn’t give a shit. People have reputations to uphold. This protects OP. It’s a win win and I don’t see a single fucking downside to this stance.

How would that be projection? Like I’m mad I never got to fuck my teenage gf? Or you think I’ve never had sex? Dude literally nothing you have said in this thread resembles a coherent thought or statement. I reward you zero points, and may God have mercy on your soul.

Well I don’t have proof it’s real so I cannot say you’re wrong. However I’m not really getting the impression it’s fake. But I mean who knows. You could be right. You could be wrong. No way to really know.

Your point about the typing speech bubble is fair. It does seem pretty “template-like.” Also this is OP’s only post on Lemmy. So yea, I mean, I cannot say you’re wrong lol. Seems like a weird thing to fake though. Usually it’s done for meme or ragebait purposes, not mundane every day shit like this. But hey, fake internet points are fake internet points at the end of the day.

I also assume most things are fake, however nothing about this one makes me think it’s fake? Seems pretty reasonable to me.

What the actual fuck are you even saying? Never have sex? You’re not making any sort of coherent point and you look like a jackass.

Haha then I think it’s all good man. I wouldn’t worry about it.

Oh then all you need to do here is confirm with the GF’s parents that she did in fact get permission. Then just enforce that they sleep in separate rooms like I suggested in my other comment. The you’re good to go!

Edit: why downvotes? This is the best path for OP because:

1. He confirms that the gf’s parents gave permission, thus protecting himself from liability.

2. He asks them to sleep in separate rooms. If they don’t listen then at least he can say he tried to prevent stuff from happening, which proves OP wasn’t encouraging anything from happening. If it happens then fine, and OP is cool with it.

3. He treats his son like a young adult and gives him freedom to have his gf stay over. If his son sneaks into the gf’s room at night then that is his son’s decision. OP didn’t endorse it.

It’s a win-win for everyone. Why ya’ll downvoting this? Fucking mindboggling…

What a dumb take. They’re just gonna have sex somewhere else then.

You didn’t insult him. That person is a moron.

What a weird take. In what conceivable universe was OP insulting his son?

I mean honestly, if they wanna have sex then they’re just gonna do it somewhere else. I honestly don’t see the point of trying to prevent it.

What you can do as a compromise is make them sleep in separate rooms. So it’s still a “sleep-over” but you’re not directly encouraging it. I think this is probably the best option. If one of them sneaks into the other’s room for “fun time” then that’s on them and at least you did your part. Idk your relationship with your son but just make sure you give him the talk about using protection. No one wants a teenage pregnancy.

I would also recommend calling the GF’s parents to confirm that they’re okay with the sleepover, because it’s possible that they’re lying and didn’t actually get permission. So I’d definitely confirm that.

Welp, looks like absolutely nothing was done by admins or mods. Rip.

I assume moderation here doesn’t exist?

I’ve reported OP to both the instance admins and the community mods, and absolutely no action has been taken. That’s extremely disappointing. I’m assuming moderation here doesn’t exist?

Please stop replying to me. You’re a toxic user and I don’t want to speak to you further.