I am not against extreme age gaps by law or anything. I just judge the fuck out of them because, as I have stated, they are not generally healthy relationships. Something you apparently discovered yourself.

I would not choose it for my life and I would council people against it, which I have done many times.

One of the things I love about this new generation of women is they are less likely to put up with male harassment. I just saw a thirty year old man approach a group of young teens in the mall. The girls immediately shut him down and said he was creepy for talking with them.

Men in the US have been abusing and using women for a long time now. Using unhealthy power imbalances like age and money to manipulate women. Having four daughters, I am acutely aware of this.

Your story was rather flippant exposing your disgust and blame of women. You have some internalized misogyny going on there hence why I called you out.

I will have you know that I marched on the capital of Washington State and secured the right for gay marriage. Have you talked to your representatives personally about your feelings and lobbied them to give rights to marginalized people.

I am surprised you commented from so long ago. Is everything ok?